"Steve Schramka with Schramka-Densow Funeral Home in Thiensville says that the phrase "in lieu of flowers," doesn't mean not to send flowers. It just means that donations are another option. "Please omit" is a request for no flowers. He remarks that some families choose to say nothing so as "not to dictate how others express their sympathy." GM Today
Tribute Preference by State
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Floral Tribute Preference
Numbers have been used to indicate floral tribute preferences. The first number signifies the most frequently requested tribute in that state; the second number equals the next most requested, and so forth